If you’ve broken up with your lover and you’re reading this, then you probably want them back, the faster the better. After all, you don’t want to leave things until it’s too late to get your ex back, do you?
Even if you made mistakes in the relationship, don’t let this stop you from making up and getting your lover back. Millions of couples over centuries all over the world have broken up and gotten back together again, so there is hope.
First, give yourself some time alone and reflect upon what went wrong. What was the final straw that ended the relationship? Is it something that you think is easy to fix? Or will it take a bit more effort and time to repair things and get the relationship back to where it was, when you were both happy and thought you’d be together forever?
Try to forgive yourself if you have made any mistakes. If you can’t forgive yourself, how can your ex forgive you? Making mistakes is what every one does at some point in their life. Nobody’s perfect, even if some people give the illusion that they are. So stop beating yourself up about any mistakes you’ve made.
Coming up with a plan to avoid making the mistakes you’ve made in the past can be very helpful and a step forward in getting your ex back.
When you’re ready to start making up with your lover, be confident, courageous and honest when you speak to them.